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Hostesses who come to Singapore all have a dream, and that is to earn money, enough for their family, enough for themselves to live more comfortably. Some might be unable to afford high medical fees for a sick parent, or are the sole breadwinners in the family with many depending on their income. This line of work, even though frowned upon, is insanely rewarding. Coming here to work is the best way to turn it around in the shortest time.

There’s some truth to this. How many times have we seen old men being cheated of their life savings by a beautiful lady they met at the bar or club? But not everyone is bad. Some girls were heartbroken, and that’s why they chose to work. Cheating is so common in Vietnam and it’s not surprising to hear these stories. I can say with confidence, that when they meet men in Singapore or Malaysia, they feel a sense of safety they might not get in Vietnam. Girls tell me Singaporean men are more loyal, and know how to dote on their girlfriends. This is why it is possible to have a hostess as your girlfriend.  

Sure, if you are filthy rich and have lots of money, love is on easy-mode. To outsiders, they see it as a transaction, but if there are two willing parties, who cares what happens? “True love doesn’t need money” yeah sure, if you’re an idealist. It’s common for girlfriends to ask for gifts during special days, and sometimes money for them to spend. They see it as a measure of your love for them. I agree, it is a very antiquated state-of-mind, but this is unavoidable if you want to date a hostess. You don’t have to be very rich, but you will be expected to give gifts during birthdays, valentines, women’s day and such. What do rich guys do? They give the girls $10000 a month and ask them to stop working, and then marry them. Obviously, I do not fall into this category.

As her boyfriend, you need to be firm and gentle at the same time. Firm to make sure she knows her place and cannot bully you into doing something, and gentle when it comes to listening to her when she has had a bad day. That is strength and she will respect you more when you don’t give in easily.

There are 2 schools of thought when it comes to having a hostess girlfriend. 1. Wow, you’ve made it and managed to bag a super hot girl that no one else could. 2. You’re not a real man. A real man would not let his girlfriend be touched by other men. Well, I knew what I was going into, and there has to be trust between you and her. She doesn’t go to hotels, she has her boundaries, and I was satisfied with those boundaries.  

What you have with your girlfriend is between you two, and don’t let anybody else say otherwise, unless you’re so deep in the hole you can’t even see your fingers. If you can’t think logically, then maybe it’s not wise to date a hostess.

Whether a hostess is out for your money, or is someone who really loves you, we will leave it to you to discern. More often than not, they will want someone who is financially capable, and is able to afford them a certain lifestyle. In other cases, they don’t want for too much, and are content to have a loyal boyfriend who doesn’t cheat on them. Treat them like normal people, not a trophy wife, and you will find your life much easier.